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TelIthil

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Posted: 2007-10-14 22:38:43

I dont know if this is going to be a hot topic or not, but it is something that i have to wonder about and felt that if there was a place to wonder about it this would be the thread! In the course of my relationships i have found that partners positions constantly vary with regards to masturbation in the context of the relationships. In my latest relationship the opinion has always been more negative than positive. In that sense she is against masturbation generally, but feels that it is ok for herself to engage in that pleasure. However in my case she feels cheated if i masturbate. I enjoy masturbation (as im sure many other men and women do). I sometimes (often) even enjoy it more than sex. What i wonder if it is reasonable or unreasonable of me to think that in the course of a relationship i should be allowed that pleasure.