You are single for what reason? | Club Intimate New Zealand

I am very curious as to why some of the male members of this site are songle.....My guess would be because of the way they talk/ behave, etc. when it comes to a woman and how she looks.

I was clicking through the pages on this site, reading the comments that were posted by others regarding a picture somebody posted...........

These women know they are beautiful, they don`t need to be reminded of that, they see it every time they look in the mirror but at the same token, every woman as does every man for that matter, like to hear somebody pay a compliment. Whether it be how she looks, her thoughts, etc, etc, etc.........

However, posting a comment is one thing but do we as men absolutely need to "Dog out" on every good looking woman we see? It is as though some of these men have never seen a beautiful woman before.

Would they say such comments to these women if they were directly in front of them? My guess would be "NO" because they know full well they would be shot down right away and couldn`t face the humiliation or rejection so they save their comments for online that way when they don`t get a reply, get shot down or humilitated they are still able to face the monitor and proudly move on to the next woman.

We all know full well that the men that talk down in such a way to these women would never dream of doing so to their mother or sister and heaven forbid they have an attractive daughter and some man started talking to her the way they talk to women they would be the first ones to take the gloves off and have a good game of "smash mouth". They can not deny that either for if they did allow some man to talk to their daughters that way it just shows that they temselves are not men but poor excuses for human beings. Come on guys, grow up, act your age and show a little bit of respect, at the very least try to act your ages rathar than your shoes sizes.

I anxiously await any and all comments to this, please feel free to speak your minds..after all you certainly don`t have any problems doing so with the women here.

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30-Dec-2006 14:31:54

ssmog

18-Jan-2007 08:57:22

Hey mrflyn.................before you start barking orders such as telling me to get a grip of "life" you may wish to read my origional comment again.................I did not at any time say "men"....implying all men, I said "SOME MEN"

I did not say that women do not like to be told how attractive they are and men are the same. I said they DO NOT NEED to be told how attractive they are. Wants and needs are two entirely different things.

Bye and have a nice day now.

mrflynn269u

17-Jan-2007 14:35:42

I think you need to get a grip on live.Women always like to be told how good they look.Yes some of the comments are roud be thats live.So when you say men in this group are single because of the way we talk to women you are very wrong.

Jess

31-Dec-2006 09:32:57

Good topic. Reasons are many, in my view it depends on the person`s social circle, culture, traditions and in many cases a history of bad lucks meeting wrong people.

I guess we all want to have a loving partner and the quest goes on but in this world today where people are motivated by greed, power and sex meeting the right person is a challenge.

Would love to hear what others have to say.