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When it comes to love each and every one of us have different variations of what it truly means. Honestly though, what does love mean?
For some they can only describe love as something they experience such as an emotion, such emotions can be very difficult to describe. It can range from a deep warm sensation filling inside, now is that in our hearts or in our souls? I don`t know the answer to that, All I know is that it is a wonderful feeling not just loving somebody but being in love with somebody. With this comes the racing heart, the stomach doing flip flops, the tingling of the arms and legs and although some of these symptoms are similar with those of certain medical ailments they really are a good bunch of symptoms to have.
Then there are those that are "in love" with the idea of love...They wear their hearts on their sleeves wishing to be loved and in turn think or feel that they also love. There`s not a person alive that has not gone through this at one point in their life time, it is a part of life and there`s nothing we can do about it but we can do something about how we manage or control that aspect of life. There are those that will do anything to be noticed by that person they want to be with, some will literally go broke showering others with gifts, some will lose their jobs because they would rather be with somebody than do the right thing and go to work when required to do so while others will go too far with showing their affection that it comes close to if not crossing the lines where somebody feels threatened. It doesn`t mean that this person infactuated with the perspective person is intending to be a threat of any sort but the word "stalking" does come to mind whether intentional or not some don`t care for that and it only pushes others away and can result in legal actions. I know I sure wouldn`t be to impressed with that happening to me. In fact, I think I would most likely be a little paranoid, I think Hollywood made a movie about that "Fatal Attraction".
Next we have lust...........I understand that regardless of what anybody says a persons physical appearance will always play a major role in any perspective relationship. I don`t care if somebody says that looks do not matter, anybody that tries to tell me that I call a liar because we as people, as part of the animal kingdom can not help it, it is nature, beauuty attracts. Simple as that. It is the very first thing we notice of a person, whether it be a persons hair, face, body type, etc. once we overcome that person beauty ( male or female beauty) we begin to acknowledge that there is also an inner beauty, that inner beauty can range from a warm amd loving heart consisting of kindness, affection, well nautred personality all the way to somebody`s intellect.
What we as members of the "animal kingdom" must do is remember that we are not just animals but also HUMAN giving us the ability to differentiate lust and love. We have already covered the aspect of love but where do we draw the line when it comes to `lust` Many people are unable to get beyond lust, I feel bad for those people because those are the ones that are unable to commit or at least open themselves up to commit to a serious relationship with one person, instead they frequent such places as bars and night clubs in the hopes of simply being able to add another notch to the bed post. That is no way to live. That is not what was intended for humans. Humans are the only species on earth that actually fornicate for no reason other than to fornicate. All other species procreate with the sole pupose of going forth, multiplying, etc. If that is all humans where intended to do than why is it that we do feel such things as love, hurt, pain and sorrow?
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